Reasons for divorce in New York

To file for divorce in New York State, you must establish grounds (legally acceptable reasons).

New York State is particular when establishing a basis for divorce. While some other states allow couples to file for divorce without a lawyer because they don't get along (irreconcilable differences), New York requires grounds for the divorce. A waiting period may be applicable. Regardless of the ground you choose, Divorce.com can assist you in completing an uncontested divorce.

There are seven grounds, legally acceptable reasons, for a divorce in New York State:

1. Irretrievable breakdown in relationship for a period of at least 6 months This ground is usually called a no-fault divorce. To use this ground, the marriage must be over for at least 6 months, and all economic issues, including debt, how the marital property will be divided, and custody and support of the children have been settled. Issues are settled when an agreement has been reached or they have been resolved.
2. Cruel and inhuman treatment To use this ground, specific acts of cruelty must have happened in the last five years. It is not enough that you and your spouse had arguments or did not get along. The acts of cruelty must rise to the level that the Plaintiff is physically or mentally in danger and it is unsafe or improper for the Plaintiff to continue living with the Defendant.
3. Abandonment To use this ground, the spouse must have abandoned the Plaintiff for at least one year or more. Two examples of abandonment: where the spouse physically leaves the home without any intention of returning or where the spouse refuses to have sex with the Plaintiff, this is called "constructive" abandonment.
4. Imprisonment To use this ground, the spouse must have been in prison for 3 or more years in a row. The spouse must have been put into prison after the marriage began. The Plaintiff can use this ground while the spouse is in prison or up to 5 years after the spouse was released from prison.
5. Adultery To use this ground, the Plaintiff must show that the spouse committed adultery during the marriage. This ground can be hard to prove because evidence from someone besides the Plaintiff and spouse is needed.
6. Divorce after a legal separation agreement To use this ground, the Plaintiff and Defendant sign and file a valid separation agreement and live apart for one year. The separation agreement must meet specific legal requirements to be valid.
7. Divorce after a judgment of separation This ground is not used very often and is sometimes called a conversion. To use this ground, the Supreme Court draws up a judgment of separation and the married couple live apart for one year.

Each ground has its specific waiting period, when applicable.

Further explanations of the grounds for divorce in New York are provided in your instruction list you’ll receive when you decide to utilize a DIY divorce with Divorce.com. Our process can be used for any of the six grounds when you choose to file a divorce without an attorney.